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Andrew Tripp planted 3 trees in memory of Brian & Joan Emmerson
Tuesday, April 20, 2021
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Kathy, Steve, This is a truly terrible tragedy and I am heart broken for you. My deepest condolences on your loss.
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Kathy lit a candle
Sunday, May 9, 2021
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Lighting a candle for the best mother there ever was. i should be celebrating with you but sadly I will do my best to celebrate the awesome mother you were/
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Noah Emmerson posted a condolence
Thursday, May 6, 2021
Grandma used to say “only the good die young”. Her and Grandpa were too young, but she was right, they were so unbelievably good.
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Noah Emmerson posted a condolence
Thursday, May 6, 2021
Grandma and Grandpa,
To be without you hurts. I find comfort in knowing you’re together, neither of you have to feel the pain and loss that we are all feeling right now. I know how hard it must be to see us all sad, but you both meant so very much to us. Grandma, you were never a burden on anyone. You were an angel and we were all so unbelievably grateful for you. You could never know the amount your voice would brighten my day, or how warm a hug from you could make me feel. Grandpa, I miss your books. I miss your smell and you showing up to the house randomly. I’m proud to call myself your grandkid, and I hope you’re proud too. You are a man I will forever look up to, thank you.
We miss you. We miss the candies at your house and Grandmas late nights and Grandpas early mornings. We miss how full your house felt with you in it. We all love you. You’ll always be with us.
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Kayla Emmerson uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, May 4, 2021
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A Tribute to Grandma
When thinking of our Grandma, it is hard to put thoughts into words. Mostly because our Grandma was a woman of many words and they were all filled with such love. Grandma always described herself as a healer, and I do not think I could come up with a better word for her. She spent her entire life caring for others, never asking for anything in return. Her love for her family was unconditional and by far her most outspoken quality. Like a momma bear protecting her cubs, if you did something to harm her family, the claws came out. Grandma did not like arguments, especially between her family. She did not see the point in arguing and if she had it her way, I think she would solve every issue with magic fairy dust. If she had one argument it was “why can’t we all just get along?”. She could see the best in everyone, even when they were at their lowest.
Holidays were Grandma’s favorite because it meant we would be together. She loved to give and always had the biggest pile of gifts for whoever was being celebrated at the time. Christmas brought her so must joy because she was able to spoil all of us at once. I can remember Christmas’ spent at their home when I was younger and not being able to walk through the living room without tripping over a present or two. Grandma would post her own version of The Night Before Christmas on Facebook for all her friends and family to enjoy. Her favorite decoration was always her Christmas village. Adding something new to it each Christmas was exciting for her and she loved to share the pictures with everyone on social media. Every year she still put out Halloween loot bags for the kids in the neighbourhood. Year after year less children were around the reap the benefits but that did not stop her from placing them outside. It did however change her perspective when buying the treats… so that when no one showed up at least she could still indulge. This usually included plain Lays chips and Reese Peanut Butter Cups.
At Grandma’s house, anything went. It was a punishment free zone filled with an endless supply of delicious treats, warm hugs, and constant amusement. Grandma’s house was somewhere we were always excited to go. It was never a chore spending time with her, listening to her stories more than once or letting her kick our butt in scrabble. As we grew older, she became our confidant. Grandma was our best friend, the greatest listener, and the best shoulder to cry on. Grandma genuinely enjoyed our company. She was always willing to pick us up after a night out, drive us to an appointment or take us to the mall, no matter what time it was. Usually, the later in the afternoon, the better. Grandma was quite the night owl, which made mornings tough on her. She loved a good game of late-night BINGO or watching night-time TV.
Grandma had the most adventurous spirit. The pure joy she got in seeing a new sight or experiencing something for the first time was priceless. As she grew older her desire to try new things (except foods) really grew along with her. She got a tattoo with her sisters, she jumped from cliffs into water below, kayaked with ease, swam, and snorkeled at many beaches, traveled to places she had never been before, saw a Grizzly and her cubs and so much more. Her awe and wonder were truly something to see. Even something common like a bird eating from her backyard birdfeeder made her so giddy, you would think she just won the lottery. That was always the most special thing about her… to her, the best things in life were not things. She was such an inspiration to all of us, showing everyone that when it comes to fun, age is no factor. Grandma was always a child at heart. Even when her grandkids were not in the car, she still blasted Hot 89.9 on the radio and often you could find her singing along. Grandma loved music and if a generic song lyric came up in conversation, she would sing whatever song it may have came from. Music makes your day brighter and Grandma singing a tune was like a ray of sunshine, even when it was off-key.
She did not take a compliment gracefully. When offered, she was usually in disbelief. That does not mean that we did not give them to her generously, I believe she just could not see what others saw in her. Her smile was contagious, and her laugh was music to our ears. She did not like it when she smiled in photos, but I can not help but find that those are my favorite pictures of her. I always thought that she was the most beautiful woman in the world. Possibly not in the most traditional way, but in the only way that ever mattered to me. She was a glimmer of light in a dark room and people were always drawn to her.
If our Grandma was not perfect, she was pretty darn close. She touched the lives of every person she knew in a positive way. Throughout my life I do not think I have heard anyone mutter a harmful word about our Grandmother, and for some reason I think that makes this even harder. It is impossible not to wonder why this happened to someone so important to so many people. I do not find solace in thinking someone needed you more, because I do not know how that could be true. The hole in all our hearts will not be easy to fill, and it will take time. Time that we will take trying to live a life you would be proud of. It is an understatement to say that you will be missed. They say that there are two ways that people die, physically and when their name stops being said by those they love. Although you are gone, you will live on forever through the stories we will remember daily, the stories we will share around the table together, the stories we will tell our children, and the ones they will tell theirs. You will be a bigger legend than Big Foot. We love you so much, Grandma.
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Andy Gilvary posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 28, 2021
Kevin, Tara and Family. Sorry to hear of the tragic news of your parents passing, Our thoughts and prayers are with you...Andy
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Todd Lacroix posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 27, 2021
My sincere condolences to the entire Emmerson Family.
Todd Lacroix & the rest of the Lacroix family.
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Alex Ignacio lit a candle
Monday, April 26, 2021
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Our deepest condolences to you and your family Kathy. Praying for your family in these difficult times. May they rest in peace.
- Alex & Jo Ignacio
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Meenu posted a condolence
Monday, April 26, 2021
Kathy and Steven, we don’t know each other but I heard your story on the news. And I saw your parents picture here. I wanted to send condolences and strength to you. So sorry for your loss. I lost my Mom April 5th. So I too can share in some of your grief. My Mom’s obituary is here too. Stay strong and remember they are not hurting.
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Gary Woodworth posted a condolence
Monday, April 26, 2021
Our deepest condolences to the Emerson family(s). My wife and I were shocked and saddened to be told of Brian and Joan's Obituary. I met Brian many years ago in Tunney's Pasture as he and I were both employees of PWC at the time and our paths crossed quite a bit during those years. Brian was the consummate professional whose dedication to his career was surpassed only by his love and devotion to family. I sincerely hope that the wonderful memories that you most assuredly have of Brian and Joan bring you comfort now and in the future.
Gary Woodworth
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Dean, Trudy, Brittney and Tyler Davis posted a condolence
Saturday, April 24, 2021
Kathy, Barry, Craig and Kevin,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Take comfort in your memories.
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Kathy Mitchell posted a condolence
Saturday, April 24, 2021
I remember when Joan was a child care provider at the Carleton swimming pool with her colleague Joan. They were called The Two Joans and saved the sanity of moms with three year olds! After our swim there was time for coffee and adult conversations.Joan kept our little ones safe and happy.
My son is now 39.
My condolences on the loss of your parents and grandparents.
Kathy Mitchell
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Kathy & Audrey Brown donated to Heart and Stroke Foundation Canadian Partnership For Stroke Recovery
Saturday, April 24, 2021
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Tara Emmerson uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, April 24, 2021
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My fav photo of Kev and mom.
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Kayla Emmerson uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, April 22, 2021
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A Tribute to Grandpa
What can you say about a man of few words? I think it just means when there is something to say, we better listen up! Even if it meant we had to listen closely. Grandpa was known to mumble, and often grumble, but he was always full of knowledge. He was filled to the brim with any information you needed to solve your issue. If somehow, he did not know what to do, he could often figure it out with a good jab of a screwdriver, smack of a hammer or swift kick in the a**. Grandpa frequently told us that pretty much anything could be solved with a swift kick in the a**… and I cannot say he was wrong about that. Something about the tough love that came hand in hand with Grandma’s soft, gooey core always created a harmonic balance in the family. Without his stern talking-tos, none of us would have grown up with respect for ourselves we have today. Grandpa instilled a deep trust in us, and disappointment was never an option. That meant a lack of respect and the older you grow, the more you appreciate the value of respect. For ourselves, for others. For the hardwood floor… You know, the things you tend not to think about as a child.
When I think about Grandpa, I picture the scene from Shrek where he is trying to explain to Donkey there is a lot more to ogres than people think. He suggests that ogres are like onions. Donkey asks him “Because they stink?”, “No” says Shrek, “Because they make you cry?” Donkey asks, genuinely curious. Shrek explains to Donkey that it is because onions have layers, and Donkey helpfully points out that there are plenty of more delicious foods with layers, but Shrek insists, he is like an onion. Grandpa did not need to be a beautiful cake, or a yummy parfait. He was always happy being an onion. Chock-full of layers, and each one you were lucky enough to carefully peel away, you got closer to his big onion heart. Grandpa did not give his love to everybody he met; he was never won over “easily” (unless your name is Richard Brazeau). But if you truly took the time then he would let you in. He was kind in some of the most unexpected moments. He was brave in all the right moments. He could also show weakness, it was rare, and he picked his moments carefully.
We lovingly nicknamed our grandfather “Grumpa”. He could be gruff, and at times harsh but he was always the strong one to us. He tended to show his affections in the form of mockery and mimicking. He did not grow up in a time where men showed their emotions, flaws or injuries. He did not always say I love you, but deep down we always knew. He emulated strength. He was the picture of a man who you did not mess with. Red Forman if you need a visual. I have fond memories of strapping on leg weights and tirelessly chasing him through the house. He never gave up, he never let me win. We always had to earn that with him, and that was okay. It taught us how exciting a challenge could be. It taught us the thrill of earning something all on your own. He probably did not have much faith that we would all grow to appreciate his lessons, especially because most of the time we did not even realize at the time that they were lessons, but I think it is safe to say we all do.
Grandpa was very quick to throw on some golden oldies, or a classic movie which has permanently driven a love for all things nostalgic and old school into us from an incredibly young age. Friends often chuckled at our choice of “flick” to pop in the VHS, or music we chose to dance to on our CD Walkman, and that was okay. Maybe not at the time… but look at us now. Who would have thought every year the fashion trends would slowly start recycling instead of innovating? Music these days is mostly remixes or fresh “tracks” over “old” tunes. As the hipsters say, “we were doing it before it was cool”. We have Grandpa to thank for that. Probably should also thank him for our ability to recite movie quotes better than a speech for school. Not sure our parents appreciate that one, though.
As I sit here writing this tribute to you, Grandpa, I have a hard time knowing where to finish. I try to find comfort in knowing that we have the memories we do, but there is not much comfort in being without your strength. So instead, I think of you giving me a swift kick in the a** and telling me to get a grip on myself and it reminds me to be strong, just like you. Your strength will live on in all of us and that is a gift we will never take for granted. We love you, Grumpa.
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Melanie Daigle lit a candle
Wednesday, April 21, 2021
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Kathy and family my deepest condolences for your lost. Sending you energy, thoughts and prayers.
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Lyne H. posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 21, 2021
Barry, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Barry King posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 21, 2021
I had the great privilege of working with Brian at Public Works for many years. Brian was respected by all. His knowledge of heating and cooling plants was unmatched. When he managed a project you knew it was in good hands.
Brian had a great sense of humour. When retired I used to see him at the occasional car show where we would talk about old times. I’ll miss you Brian.
My sincere condolences to Joan and Brian’s family.
Barry King
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Luc Berneche posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 21, 2021
Kathy and Steve,
We are sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
Rachel and Luc
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Roch Charette posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 21, 2021
So very sorry for your loss Kathy and Steve, my deepest condolences.
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Sellappa posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 20, 2021
I'm so sorry to hear your loss. My deepest condolences to Kathy and family.
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Jim McKittrick posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 20, 2021
Kevin and Tara please accept our sincere sympathy on the devastating loss of your parents .May your memories give you comfort during this terrible time.
Carolyn&Jim McKittrick
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Robin Berard posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 20, 2021
So very sorry for your loss Kathy and family. My prayers are with you all.
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Genya and Murray posted a condolence
Monday, April 19, 2021
Our condolences to Kathy and entire family on the passing of your parents. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
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Shannon Suggitt-Roch posted a condolence
Monday, April 19, 2021
Very sorry for your loss Kathy. Sending my condolences to you and your family.
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Ratha lit a candle
Monday, April 19, 2021
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My deepest condolences to Kathy and her family. R.I.P.
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Roz Helgason posted a condolence
Sunday, April 18, 2021
Deepest condolences to Kathy, Barry, Craig, Kevin and family. So very, very sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad and Mom. Joan was an amazing babysitter to my son for the first 3 years of his life. She took such good care of him, and all the people in her life. They will be missed by so many.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Rosalind Helgason
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Mike Brazeau posted a condolence
Saturday, April 17, 2021
Our condolence to you Kevin and Tara and your family at such a sad time, from uncle Mike and aunt Lorraine Brazeau and family
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Marilyn posted a condolence
Saturday, April 17, 2021
My heart goes out to Brian and Joan’s children Kathy, Barry, Craig and Kevin who have shown tremendous love and courage during this very difficult time. And my deepest condolences to their grandchildren and anyone who has been touched by this kind and caring couple. Brian was my brother and I knew that I could always count on him for support. He could always make me laugh. I’ve known Joan since I was twelve and have always thought of her as that cool, sophisticated woman who won my brother’s heart. She was beautiful inside and out.
My heart is broken. I love you both dearly and will miss you both terribly. Love forever.
Marilyn
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Diane Turner (Emmerson) lit a candle
Saturday, April 17, 2021
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Words cannot begin to express my deepest condolences to the children ,Kathy , Barry , Craig and Kevin and grandchildren of Brian and Joan . Their courage and support they have given each other has made me very proud of them . Brian was my brother , who was always there for me . I knew he was just a phone call away . Joan was a gem ! Always there to help anyone who needed her . How lucky I was to have them both in my life . I feel blessed . I love you both very much and shown me what kindness , dedication and love was all about . I’ll miss you both very much and I will love you always
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Saturday, April 17, 2021
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Joshua Emmerson posted a condolence
Saturday, April 17, 2021
Saddened to see these two good people go. I'll always remember their kind nature and willingness for family.... And times playing bingo. Absolute condolences to the immediate family.
Joshua Emmerson
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Mary-Ann Emmerson posted a condolence
Saturday, April 17, 2021
My deepest condolences to ALL of you in this most difficult time
Mary-Ann Emmerson
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Tara posted a condolence
Saturday, April 17, 2021
Thinking of everyone grieving such a big loss to the family this week. Avery Mae will always remember swimming and singing in the pool with her great aunt Joan, thanks for the memories.
Love - Tara, Teagan and Avery Mae
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Saturday, April 17, 2021
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